So many times while supporting others in their chakra growth i have had to explain that a chosen change in us creates a forced change for others. its easy to get mad at them and blame them for why we remain stuck repeating the same lesson over and over again, but that is a huge mistake.
If we have truly delved into the depths of our own chakras , we will understand that its in no way that black and white.
Most of us have our own demons we fight on a daily basis. once we know those demons intimately we can take responsibility for them, age the emotion and allow ourselves to grow.
Blaggards and the "newly woke" will cringe at the idea that we keep ourselves stuck while we just point the finger at how imbalanced everyone else is, but i say "suck it up butter cup" our outer world and experiences gives us the biggest clue as to what is going on within us and our misbehaving chakras.
Over lock-down i have worked with several chakra enthusiast and the ones who have had the most (lasting) success are the ones who looked in more than they pointed out. I am the nutty professor when it comes to the chakras and am fascinated with what i see in people and how that shows up in their chakras and not forgetting the response or reaction that can trigger in me. I want to learn about myself as much as i want to understand others. For years i did not listen to my own emotional needs I did not consider my strengths and weaknesses and discern when to give myself and when to withdraw. I have learned (the hard way) that we have the potential to bring out the best or worst in others. This in turn has brought the need for a chosen change for me and the chakras.
Anyone who knows me knows I have struggled to charge for a chakra shake or reading. Understanding the chakras had shot me in the foot, i have worked with so many mediums, healers and the likes that i know the pitfalls of changing the energy and charging. I have a pimp (long story) and she has been selling me to the highest bidders. its mind blowing what some are happy to pay for what I do, And if it was not for my pimp i would never have been forced to grow.
Now for the change I am about to make, but first a quick lesson in my chakras. the value of what i do requires a little growth in 3 key chakras. firstly my sacral was in danger of blocking , a few ungrateful's had shown up and were disturbing my peace. not only that I continued to give, bad move and a shit habit to break. My heart chakra has always been a tricky fucker, but i have worked tirelessly to nurture it back to health. My worth, putting value in who i am and how i do what I do is being highlighted in my outer world so i guess its time for a internal growth spurt.
I have struggled with my throat chakra my whole life but i no longer see that as a bad thing. i have seen that only real change can be attained if the throat chakra comes along for the ride.
Thanks to the generosity of family and friend's I am sat in front of a screen and tapping on a keyboard, shifting the mouse. And being inspired to write again.
Ah ! back to the chosen change !
I am in the process of creating a "Buy "button, it will be for a quick shake and short text explanation. I have decided that i will charge £5 a shake, some may say that is not enough and others will say its too much, both are right in their world but in my world i am comfortable that its a more than fair exchange for what i do.
Ideally i will have a set amount of "Buy" buttons, I am thinking 10 a day for now, most days I exceed that amount of shaking so you can see why this change might need to happen.
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