This blog is a little close to home for me, its something i have to keep remembering to do. Even before i got into watching chakras, i could see that there were people who worked realy hard to help others but failed to take their own advice, failed to look in and address their own issues. Strangely quiet a few still think that to be a healer or medium they need to suffer in some way. But thats an old worn out belief.
Over the years, i have given reports to quite a few healers and mediums, and i have not come across many who are willing to let go of their issues or address them. The problem with that attitude is that eventually our tower comes tumbling down, the health problem or relationship issues that we avoided or refused to take responsability for will be our un-doing.
I have often found that healers draw to them people with similar issues be it health or emotional, often both as blocked or un-addressed emotions become physical pain. The healers go all out to help and support the stranger, giving advice and healing, Failing to see that they can learn and grow from paying as much attention to the advice they hope the stranger will take on board.
Its the same with mediums, i cant see how they can be a clear channel for messages when they have so many un-addressed imbalances. I believe that they do get messages, but i also believe that their imbalances will affect their delivery of the messages. We have quite a famous medium in our area, and i have had readings with her a few times, once myself and 2 friends visited her on the same day but at different times. We met up later and listened to all three tapes. In places we were all given the same message, but it was clear that they were not messages from our dearley departed, they were assumptions made by her due to our age and things she would have presumed (wrongly) were important to us. There were very clearly real messages in the reading too. Im not trying to dismiss her ability, im saying that had she have put as much energy into addressing her own imbalances she'd not have felt the need to fill in and tell us what she thaught we wanted or needed to hear. I checked her chakras after the reading, and the messages were based on a need of hers, that was blocked.
The only way i can tune into chakras is if i tune into myself first, and honestly face whats going on with me, i have tried to cut corners, or kid myself before, but every time i did, i fell flat on my face. When i find a pattern in the chakras that i watch, i pay extra cose attention to that aspect of my life cos i have learnt that there is a message in there for me too.
I have learnt that to be the best that i can be, i have to find a balance between giving to others and giving to myself,
Understanding others and understanding myself. Accepting others and accepting myself, the list is endless but the message is always the same......BALANCE!
Over the years, i have given reports to quite a few healers and mediums, and i have not come across many who are willing to let go of their issues or address them. The problem with that attitude is that eventually our tower comes tumbling down, the health problem or relationship issues that we avoided or refused to take responsability for will be our un-doing.
I have often found that healers draw to them people with similar issues be it health or emotional, often both as blocked or un-addressed emotions become physical pain. The healers go all out to help and support the stranger, giving advice and healing, Failing to see that they can learn and grow from paying as much attention to the advice they hope the stranger will take on board.
Its the same with mediums, i cant see how they can be a clear channel for messages when they have so many un-addressed imbalances. I believe that they do get messages, but i also believe that their imbalances will affect their delivery of the messages. We have quite a famous medium in our area, and i have had readings with her a few times, once myself and 2 friends visited her on the same day but at different times. We met up later and listened to all three tapes. In places we were all given the same message, but it was clear that they were not messages from our dearley departed, they were assumptions made by her due to our age and things she would have presumed (wrongly) were important to us. There were very clearly real messages in the reading too. Im not trying to dismiss her ability, im saying that had she have put as much energy into addressing her own imbalances she'd not have felt the need to fill in and tell us what she thaught we wanted or needed to hear. I checked her chakras after the reading, and the messages were based on a need of hers, that was blocked.
The only way i can tune into chakras is if i tune into myself first, and honestly face whats going on with me, i have tried to cut corners, or kid myself before, but every time i did, i fell flat on my face. When i find a pattern in the chakras that i watch, i pay extra cose attention to that aspect of my life cos i have learnt that there is a message in there for me too.
I have learnt that to be the best that i can be, i have to find a balance between giving to others and giving to myself,
Understanding others and understanding myself. Accepting others and accepting myself, the list is endless but the message is always the same......BALANCE!